I had no expectations for this book.
I knew nothing about it.
Someone had passed it along to me
and so I gave it a try.
And it was so good.
It is a memoir…it is real
and gritting and
full of emotion
and a-ha moments.
I had a little a-ha moment of my own.
I am very, very bad at
being able to stay mad at anyone.
I just can’t.
And it’s not even that I can’t
stay
mad…but I have a hard time
even getting mad.
I can be rant-y or annoyed,
aggravated, irritated, sour,
cranky, snarky with a person
but I really struggle with actual anger.
I have lost my temper before
but not many times, by my count…
not REALLY lost my temper.
Usually, if someone really makes me mad
I just disappear. I withdraw. Retreat.
Until the bad feelings pass…
which they pretty much always do.
But in the book, the author learns
that she can’t be intimate
until she learns to express anger.
And immediately,
my brain was like “are you listening?
did you hear that? pay attention!”
So anyway,
I haven’t really decided what,
if anything,
to do with that lightbulb moment so…
yeah….this was a really great book. :)
Off to a good start for
whatcha readin’? 2022 edition!
5 ♥♥♥♥♥ out of 5
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