i spoke to the manager/owner of the convenience store
that had the employee that was rude to my daughter
(and many others i'm sure)

she was surprised by what i told her
which i had thought that she would be
and it didn't appear to be
pleasantly
surprised...
she asked that i do continue shopping there
and that if i notice anything like that again
to bring it to her attention
whether it be my child or someone else's...
she was also going to speak to the employee

since then
i have not seen the employee in the store
so...
i don't know if she works there anymore or not...